My wife has been cheating on me with her female friend – I’m not sure I can get over this

DEAR DEIDRE: WHEN my wife stayed over at her best friend’s flat after a boozy night out, I was worried she had taken a guy back with her.

The truth was worse. I learned that she’d actually cheated with her female friend — and it wasn’t the first time.

I’m 36 and my wife of five years is 34. A few weeks ago, she went on a hen night, telling me it was safer to stay at her friend’s place afterwards.

Her friend is 33, single and always on the pull, so I was worried she might lead my wife astray.