My work colleague has me completely bewitched

DEAR DEIDRE: A new work colleague has me completely bewitched – despite being happily married with kids.

Every day I wake up thinking about this woman, and while I try my best to ignore it, it’s consuming me.

I’m 42, my wife is 38 and we’ve been married for nine years. We have two daughters together, one is two and the other is five.

Over the last year, our sex life has completely died and I can’t remember the last time that we were intimate.

While I still...