Could big move be my biggest mistake?

DEAR DEIDRE: Following a whirlwind romance, my new boyfriend and I are talking about moving in together.

But friends and family have made it clear they think I’m being too hasty. I’m so confused about what to do.

I’m 30 and he’s 32. We met online over Christmas and hit it off straight away.

But we live 100 miles apart. We’ve been talking every night and messaging every day, and we’ve had as many weekends together as we could manage.

Now he’s suggested that we get a flat together in his hometown...