DEAR DEIDRE: My wife was having an affair with a man the same age as our son.
She says it meant nothing and was only about sex but I’m not sure I can forgive the betrayal.
I discovered she was cheating because I decided to take her to a show straight from work as a surprise.
Waiting in a cafe over the road from her office, I saw her walking out the front of the building.
I was about to stand up and greet her when I saw her turn and kiss a much younger man very intensely on the mouth.