I love my girlfriend but I’ve grown bored of our dull sex life – it’s always the same position

DEAR DEIDRE: I LOVE my girlfriend with all of my heart but I’ve grown bored of our vanilla sex life.

All I want is to spice things up every now and again, but every time I try to talk to her about it she shuts me down.

I’m 35, she’s 32 and we’ve been together for three years.

Admittedly our sex life has never been very exciting, but I always believed it was something we could explore as our relationship grew.

However, years later we’re doing the same old...