How to tame your phone addiction without quitting modern life

Most people don’t actually want to give up their phone.
They just want it to stop tugging at them like a needy toddler.

There’s a difference. One suggests extremism and poor reception. The other is far more sensible: learning how to live with technology without letting it quietly take charge of your attention, mood, and nervous system while pretending it’s being helpful.

Because for most of us, the problem isn’t “addiction” in the dramatic sense. No one’s pawning the sofa for screen time.