I want a prenup, but my fiancée won't even discuss it. How do I get her to sign the papers?

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• For Love & Money is a column from Business Insider answering your relationship and money questions.
• This week, a reader wants a prenup, but his fiancée isn't interested in even discussing the idea.
• Our columnist suggests he investigate his own motives and approach the conversation with empathy.