I'm a British mom in the US who only connected with other Brits. Now, in my 50s, my closest friends are American.

Madeleine Collins grew up in London but has been raising her two daughters in San Diego.

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• Madeleine Collins left home at 22 and spent 15 years abroad before settling in San Diego.
• As a British expat raising kids in the US, she gravitated toward other Brits.
• Now, in her 50s, it's her friendships with Americans that have instilled a sense of belonging.

My move to San Diego came at the end of a long, restless journey around the world.