Asking Eric: My mother-in-law bullies me. My husband says I’m the problem.

Dear Eric: I have been with my husband for almost 35 years. We both had been married and divorced once. But there have been three of us in this marriage: my husband, myself and his mother.

She has always treated me poorly and he always defends her.

She has bullied me over and over again. She fully believes that she is supposed to be everyone’s priority and get her way immediately, automatic compliance. If you tell her no, you will be unleashed on with such fury.

My husband defends almost all of this.