The world's most famous couples therapist spends her entire work day with other people

Esther Perel exercises with friends, goes on walks with therapy clients, and always brings guests on her work trips.

Zenith Richards

This as-told-to essay is based on a conversation with Esther Perel, a renowned couples therapist, bestselling author, and podcast host. Perel lives in New York City and travels the world for speaking engagements. This story has been edited for length and clarity.

I have been interested in psychology since I was about 14. I wanted to understand myself, my family, and my surroundings.