I just found out my boyfriend has $100,000 in debt. I want to marry him, not his debt — what should I do?

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• For Love & Money is a column from Business Insider answering your relationship and money questions.
• This week, a reader wonders what to do after finding out their boyfriend has over $100,000 in debt.
• Our columnist suggests that the reader explore their three options: leave, wait, or proceed with conditions.