My photos have been sexualised online – but I’ve escaped Grok

I had become sexualised without my knowledge or consent (Picture: Yui Mok/PA Wire)

‘I don’t want this to come across as weird, but I found your photos on a porn site and I’m not sure you know about it.’

In 2021, a follower on Twitter (before it was changed to X) sent me this startling message.

At first, I was confused – I assumed he had the wrong person, or was pulling my leg. I couldn’t make sense of how or why any of my photos would be on porn sites.

I asked for a link...