I'm a parenting coach and mom of 3. Here's how I avoid shopping meltdowns.

The author said she used to dread shopping with her kids (not pictured), but she's developed a way to keep the peace when they ask for things.

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• I used to struggle with my kids' requests to buy something whenever I was in a store with them.
• I started a tradition that now makes shopping with my kids drama-free.
• My approach fosters cooperation and, best of all, builds connection and trust.

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