A New TikTok Trend Sheds Light On How Men Talk To Women. And The Responses Are Bleak.

A Lorde song about gender fluidity became a meme about toxic behavior with more than 83,000 videos in the tag. 

A TikTok trend has women sharing screenshots and voice notes that call men out for their bad behavior to a new Lorde song — ironically captioning them ”#ManOfTheYear”.

But what’s supposed to be an empowering trend for women to stand up against emotional abuse and mistreatment has been overshadowed by the “good men” of the Internet who are utterly shocked by the stories they’re hearing.