My passive-aggressive in-laws are paying for my vacation. How do I survive the trip?

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• For Love & Money is a column from Business Insider answering your relationship and money questions.
• This week, a reader's in-laws' passive-aggressive communication is causing conflict ahead of a family vacation.
• Our columnist suggests a little willful obtuseness and taking them at their word — all while maintaining a good attitude.
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