My girlfriend dumped me after she had several affairs – and is lying to friends and family that I’m the cheater

DEAR DEIDRE: MY lazy girlfriend spent all day on TikTok and social media, while I worked, cleaned the house and looked after the kids.

Now I’ve learned she was constantly setting up new hook-ups and conducting several affairs.

I’m not even sure if both my children are actually mine, or if I’ve been bringing up one of her lovers’ kids. Talk about disrespect.

Now she has thrown me out and told everyone I’m the one who has been cheating on her, so they think I’m the bad guy.