Dominatrix fulfils my extreme sexual needs behind girlfriend’s back – but I fear she has scammed me

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DEAR DEIDRE: MY mistress fulfils my extreme sexual needs, but I fear she has scammed me for cash.

I have given her thousands of pounds and I am terrified my partner will find out.

I’m a 42-year-old guy with a fetish for femdom sex. There’s nothing I like more than to be dominated by a woman.

But my 40-year-old partner, who I’ve been with for ten years, only likes vanilla sex.

She finds my desire to be humiliated weird and a ­complete turn-off.