I spent around $2,000 on a bed party to reveal my daughter's college decision. It was extra, but completely worth it.

Melinda Long's daughter committed to the University of Miami during the early decision period.

Photo courtesy of Melinda Long

• Melinda Long, a mother of three, threw a $2,000 college reveal party for her oldest daughter.
• Long said she learned about "college bed parties" three years ago when her son got invited to one.
• She said she received both good and bad responses from it, but has no regrets.

This as-told-to essay is based on a conversation with Melinda Long...