I spent around $2,000 on a college bed party to reveal my daughter's university decision. It was extra, but I have no regrets.

Melinda Long's daughter committed to the University of Miami during the early decision period.

Photo courtesy of Melinda Long

• Melinda Long, a mother of three, threw a $2,000 college reveal party for her oldest daughter.
• Long said she learned about "college bed parties" three years ago when her son got invited to one.
• She said she received both good and bad responses from it, but has no regrets.

This as-told-to essay is based on a conversation with Melinda Long...