My lover’s husband is stalking me and I fear for my life every time I leave my home after he sent chilling message

DEAR DEIDRE: I’M so scared of my lover’s husband that I fear for my life every time I leave my home.

But I’ve fallen for her so hard I can’t imagine giving her up. What should I do?

I’m 28 and my lover is 30. We met in the pub where she is a barmaid.

She’s gorgeous and funny — completely my type.

One night, we got chatting and I ended up staying until closing. She was very flirty.

She told me she had a much older husband, who was the jealous type, and she wasn’t happy with him.