My love rat boyfriend refuses to get down on one knee despite putting me through the wringer

DEAR DEIDRE: IN our ten years together, my boyfriend has put me through the wringer – but still refuses to get down on one knee.

We’ve had two kids and I have got over his serial cheating. He always says he will propose when the time is right, but now I doubt that time will ever come.

I’m 39, he’s 41, and I would go as far as to say we’re married without the paperwork or the ring.

Over the years I’ve caught him in a string of affairs with other women and while we’ve worked through them...