Becoming a parent has changed how I approach friendships. I've stopped people-pleasing and let go of relationships that don't serve me.

The author (not pictured) has become more discerning about her friendships since she became a parent.

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• When I was younger, my friend group was much more fluid, and I had fewer boundaries.
• Now that I'm a parent, I'm more discerning about who I let in my inner circle.
• I want to model healthy boundaries for my children.

I've always been a people pleaser, and once I flew the coop, I also became an adventure seeker.

In my 20s...