My husband is sexting his colleague and I don’t know what to do

DEAR DEIDRE: READING saucy messages from my husband to a woman colleague was awful – and it got even worse when I saw what he thought about me.

According to him she is “stunning”, while I “look like I’ve just got out of bed”.

He wants to take her to bed all day long, while he never wants to touch me.

And, the most hurtful, she makes him feel good, while he finds me “repulsive”.

Like most other married couples, our sex life has slowed down but I thought he was happy with me.