I loved my husband but I fell into bed with my female friend, you can judge but my lesbian affair improved our marriage

NEXT month, my husband, Erik, 54, and I will celebrate our twenty-first wedding anniversary, a milestone I once thought we’d never see.

Because 14 years ago, I had an affair with another woman, and, though my marriage survived — thanks to a very understanding husband — I came perilously close to losing everything.

SuppliedTess Stimson and her husband Erik in 2011 shortly before her affair started[/caption] GettyAfter moving to Vermont she built a very close relationship with...