My partner has not touched me in a decade after suffering erection problems

DEAR DEIDRE: MY partner hasn’t touched me in a decade and I’m so frustrated.

We’re both in our fifties. Our sex life used to be fantastic – we’d make love several times a week and were always trying new things.

About ten years ago, he began struggling to get or keep an erection.

Then one day, he cut off sex completely.

I’ve suggested we try oral sex or simply kissing and touching each other, but he doesn’t want to know.

Short of leaving, what can I do?