I feel more like my husband’s carer than his wife

Wife giving medicine to disabled husband on wheelchair at home

DEAR DEIDRE: EVER since my husband’s health took a turn for the worse, I’ve felt more like his carer than his wife. 

Whether I’m giving him medication, helping him walk around the house, or driving him to hospital appointments, our relationship has been reduced and I’ve had enough.

I’m 62, my husband is 67, and we’ve been married for 35 years. 

Our lives were turned upside down when he was diagnosed with type 2 diabetes...