The chemistry with a guy at work is undeniable, so why does he blank me?

Portrait of a happy gay couple enjoying their vacation in Valencia.

DEAR DEIDRE: THE sexual chemistry with a guy at work is palpable when we are alone but when we are out as a group, he blanks me.

I’m a gay guy of 31 and he’s 34. I think he’s gay too but don’t know for sure. I’ve talked to him about gay clubs I’ve been to but you don’t need to be gay to go there.

We’ve had some great times together, grabbing a sandwich if we happen to go out of the office together or sometimes chatting in the gym.