Festive sex party with our neighbours has almost wrecked our relationship

House party.

DEAR DEIDRE: WE thought we were going to a regular festive party with the neighbours, but it turned out to be a sex party, which has almost wrecked our relationship.

We moved to a new estate last summer. Everyone seemed so friendly. We’d heard a few strange things about our immediate neighbours but we found them easy to get along with.

They’re an older couple in their mid-40s. The lady always makes a big fuss of our kids.

My wife and I are 32 and 35.