On paper, Andrew C., 40, looks like a pretty average Wall Street guy. He graduated from an Ivy League college, went to a top business school, and has a cushy banking job with a $300,000 paycheck. But in reality, he’s spent most of his adulthood leading a double life, performing at a male strip club in his free time. “It might sound crazy, but I just really enjoy it,” he says. “It’s my passion.”
A few years ago, Andrew left the...