I regret leaving my boring husband for sexy old flame but should I take him back?

DEAR DEIDRE: I MESSED up when I left my husband for my lover, even though the sex with my new fella is brilliant and so adventurous.

I’m 41 and my husband is 43. We’ve been married for 20 years.

We were mostly happy until he started boozing excessively.

He’s always liked a drink but when he isn’t going out getting hammered, he’s thinking about it.

I ran into an ex-boyfriend a few weeks ago. It was so lovely to see him.

We ended up going for a drink together.