Getting constantly rejected in bed by my husband is getting me down – he’s also threatening divorce

DEAR DEIDRE: MY husband rejects me when I try to have sex with him and it makes me feel so low.

I’m 38 and he is 39.

We’ve been married for 12 years and have two children, aged nine and seven.

Most of the time, we’re happy – but whenever we argue, my husband threatens divorce. It floors me and I just back down.

We sleep in separate bedrooms because I snore.

I’ve tried lots of different products, but nothing works.

Reluctantly, I agreed to sleep in a different room.