I was able to move on from lover and found new partner with your advice

DEAR DEIDRE: BY the time I realised I’d fallen in love with my friend with benefits, he had a new partner.

I felt sad because I knew we could never be more than mates, and I didn’t know how to navigate our relationship.

Was I better off ending the friendship?

I’m a 28-year-old man and he’s 29.

We’ve been friends for three years and casually slept together many times.

You were so understanding.

You acknowledged how hard unrequited love is to deal with...