I can’t stop berating my lovely partner – I find pleasure in humiliating him

DEAR DEIDRE: EVEN though my partner is a lovely man, I can’t help myself from constantly berating him.

From doing all the cooking and cleaning to buying me lavish gifts, he goes out of his way to spoil me, but for some reason, I find pleasure in humiliating him.

I’m a 34-year-old man and my boyfriend is 29.

We’ve been together two years and recently moved in together.

It’s safe to say that he is the best partner that I could have asked for and he treats me like a king...