My toy boy lover is abusive and blames me for his porn habit

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DEAR DEIDRE: MY toy boy lover is abusive and even blames me for his porn habit.

I know I’m not the problem but sometimes I feel like I’m going mad. It’s making me feel really depressed. 

I’m 49 and he’s 38. We’ve been together for three years.

He has a lovely side. He can be kind, loving and fun, and he’s been a good father figure to my young son.

But lately he’s changed. He started going online to look at girls on social media, then to porn sites and chat sites.