I identify as a lesbian but now I’m falling for my male personal trainer

Young woman and man are shaking hands after an intense training in the gym. Focus on woman

DEAR DEIDRE: UNTIL recently I had always identified as a lesbian, but now I’m finding myself falling for my male personal trainer, and I can’t quite wrap my head around it.

I’m 26, and since I was a young teen, I was always certain of my attraction to women. 

Men had never interested me, and so I never found myself questioning my sexuality.

That was until I joined a new gym and met my personal trainer.