I paid off my husband’s gambling debts but he’s taking money out of our account

DEAR DEIDRE: MY husband lied about paying off thousands of pounds of debt caused by his gambling addiction.

I am 49 and my husband is 50.

We have been together for almost 25 years.

The debt has accumulated on his credit card.

He swore blind he had the debt under control but I discovered this was a total lie.

We had a huge row and in the end I paid off his debts.

Now I wish I hadn’t because I never got so much as a thank you.