I’ve started admiring other men’s bodies at the pool and it makes me wonder if I’m gay

DEAR DEIDRE: OVER the past few years, I’ve started finding other men very attractive despite the fact I have only ever had relationships with women.

Could I be gay or bisexual, and not have realised it until now?

I’m 48 and single. I like sex with women, and have had lots of relationships, but they’ve never lasted long.

I’ve just never felt satisfied and always found a reason to end things.

Lately, I’ve been watching gay porn and finding it a real turn-on.