DEAR DEIDRE: I CAME home from work and caught my boyfriend watching homemade blue movies of him and his ex-girlfriend.
He’s 26 and I’m 24. We’ve only just moved in together and I’m gutted because this isn’t just any ex, it’s somebody who is very much on the scene.
He was away all summer because he’s a holiday rep. I thought it would be a lovely surprise to spend some of my savings and turn up at the resort to celebrate his birthday.
He was shocked to see me. It wasn’t the surprise that I’d hoped for.