One minute I was having a heart racing work fling, then my world blew up

DEAR DEIDRE: A RECKLESS work fling was so exciting – sneaking off to the woods for al fresco sex at impromptu moments.

But then my colleague fell pregnant, my wife found out and now I’m sleeping on my brother’s sofa, with nowhere to go and no money. I’ve lost everything.

My colleague has since given birth to a son who I haven’t even met.

I’m a man of 41 and I’m a first-class idiot. I had everything going for me. A beautiful wife of 38 and we were doing up an old cottage.