It’s been months since I split from my anxious ex and I’m still not over her

DEAR DEIDRE: MY ex-girlfriend’s anxiety really damaged our relationship but it’s four months since we split and I’m still not over her.

When we met she was in a long term relationship and had a child.

But we fell hard for each other and after an intense affair she and her child moved straight in with me.

I’m 33 and she’s 34.

That’s when I started to see her erratic behaviour for the first time.

She wanted to stay out late with friends and would come home really drunk.