Spending time with my ‘hands-on’ uncle is very unsettling

DEAR DEIDRE: SINCE I became an adult, I’ve experienced really odd behaviour from my uncle.

I used to really like him when I was a child, but since becoming an adult I find spending time around him unsettling.

I’m 22 now and he’s 57.

He says things like “you’ve developed so nicely”, and the emphasis on the word developed is so wrong.

Last time I saw him, he greeted me with a hug but his hands drifted down to cup my bum.

No one saw and I wanted to slap him.