I've spent over $10K on friends' weddings in 2.5 years. Anyone who puts you in a hard financial situation isn't a good friend.

The cost of being a bridesmaid and maid of honor in her friends' weddings was high, but Shannon Detrick says good planning and open conversations helped her stay on track financially.

Shannon Detrick

• Shannon Detrick has spent over $10,000 for friends' weddings and bachelorette parties since 2022.
• She emphasizes the importance of cost transparency and financial awareness in wedding planning.
• Good planning and open conversations helped her avoid resentment and overspending.