I let my girlfriend sleep with other men because my sex drive is so low – but I’m scared my friends will find out

DEAR Deidre: BECAUSE my sex drive is so low, I accept that my girlfriend sleeps with other men.

She even left me temporarily for one of them.

Still, I love her so much. But I’m anxious that my friends will find out about our arrangement and will judge me.

I’m 32 and she’s 29. We’ve been a couple for eight years and live together.

She’s never hidden the fact that she has cheated on me multiple times, even having sex with one guy in our bathroom while I was downstairs in the living room.