People are tired of 'unpacking' every relationship issue. Here's what some happy couples do instead.

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• Advice on social media often suggests openness in relationships.
• That can sometimes lead to constant 'unpacking' of problems.
• There are better and simpler ways to connect and resolve conflicts, therapists said.

Sandra White, 58, has been happily married for 18 years. But at the start of her relationship, she tended to unpack every issue she and her husband encountered.

"I used to call out every problem, all the time," she told Business Insider...