Girlfriend does not want to have sex since baby and tells me to watch porn instead

DEAR DEIDRE: MY girlfriend makes me feel like a sex pest simply because I am affectionate and still fancy the pants of her.

We became parents a year ago and love being a family now, but I am really missing the connection we had and worried it may have gone forever.

I’m not about to cheat but I am concerned for the future of our relationship. I don’t want to become one of those resentful old guys who has been frozen out in the bedroom.

I’m 31 and she is 32. I know...