DEAR DEIDRE: SEX with my partner is a pain in the neck . . . and the back . . . and the knees.
I have arthritis and every time we try to make love, I have to stop because it hurts.
Now I’m starting to lose my sex drive too.
I’m 53 and he’s 48. We’ve been together two years.
My arthritis used to be manageable but lately it’s got worse, and painkillers don’t touch it.
I really want to be intimate with my partner but every sexual position we try leaves me in agony.