I had a wild ’emotional affair’ with a married man – I wanted him desperately but it came to a VERY messy end

AUTHOR Lucy Cavendish, 57, knows first hand why falling for someone – even if it doesn’t turn into a full-blown affair – can destroy a relationship.

I HAD been with my partner for nine years when, one day, I looked out of the window and saw an incredibly handsome man walking past.

He had a dog, a big stick and lots of shaggy hair. He was physically imposing...