My husband claims he’s impotent but is sending sexual photos to other women

DEAR DEIDRE: MY husband claims to be impotent but he’s been sending pictures of his erect penis to women on social media.

We haven’t had sex for 10 years, and I’m devastated. 

I’m 57 and my husband is 60. We’ve been married for 23 years. 

We both have health issues, which leave me in constant pain and mean he isn’t able to perform in bed – or so I believed.

When sex started becoming a problem, we talked about it and agreed we would both be happy to kiss and cuddle in bed instead.