Since having kids my sex life has been non existent

Beautiful mother and daughter sleeping on their side. Mom is holding her daughter and keeping her close. There are grey and pink pillow around them.

DEAR DEIDRE: SLEEPING in separate beds – sometimes with our children – has put paid to our sex life.

My wife hasn’t been interested in intimacy for years and won’t discuss it. It feels like we’re flatmates, not partners.

I’m 46 and she’s 44. We have three children, aged between 11 and 7.

She stopped...