All I want is another threesome but my wife isn’t convinced

Having fun taking photos at a house party.

DEAR DEIDRE: AFTER my wife and I had an incredible threesome with my friend, I told her I’d like her to take him as a regular lover. 

When she said she was worried about doing it again, I asked her to write a list of pros and cons of our experience, so we could make it work – but she’s still hesitating 

We’ve been married for 12 years. I’m 42 and she’s 40.

I’ve always fantasised about seeing her have sex with another man and...